look, she's doing this so she can get a rise outta you, and then go NYEAH NYEAH in her own journal. you're a figment to her, not a person. expecting to be treated like a person is understandable but a waste of your time.

you can say "i don't want you for my wife; i don't want you for a friend; given my druthers i'd have you for a total stranger". that's about you, and inarguable. but you can't get around her defining herself against your wishes; she doesn't give a rat's about your wishes, and you know that.

i'm sorry your copyright's being violated like this; i know the feeling :/